The Ranting Thread

Question: if a married man and a father of two keeps sending you randy private messages, the latest of which says something to the effect of wanting to put his tongue down your cavity, do you consider that 'harmless fun'???

If it's so harmless, why does he feel the need to send the messages privately?

Just sayin'....

I mean, it would be a whole different ballgame if he were single, but the thought of a man sending something like that to a female when he has a wife and kids in the house with him....well, it makes me a bit uncomfortable, let's just say. I'm no prude, but come on...YOU'RE MARRIED! Stick your tongue down your wife's cavity!

I feel like I need a shower now.....

The older I get, the less tolerant I get of idiocy. And as much as I hate to say it, 99% of men I come in contact with are dogs that I don't have much use for outside of a platonic relationship. And as heterosexual as I am, I think I am totally starting to relate to why some women "turn".

Yeah, I had the same problem but it was with an ex who was married. And it wasn't private messages, but instead was showing up at my house and then pulling out his penis. Visit (and friendship) over. Call me a prude.

Nah, won't call you prude, just self respectful.

Geez!

Dallas wrote:

but instead was showing up at my house and then pulling out his penis.

Did you shut the door on "it"?

Donna, I got to the "turn"ing point over 10 years ago. Whenever I say stuff like that to hubby, he gets nicer. That's why I'm still married to him. I'd still like to run away from home, if I can find a nicer place to run to.

BTW, forward those messages to the guy's wife. Or kids.

He's lucky you didn't whack it off. A penis can be considered a privilege....

I don't understand why some people even bother getting married. What's the point, when you're going to pretend and act like you're still single? Isn't that supposed to be kind of the point of marriage...devoting yourself to one person and all that? Fantasy is one thing, but come on...when you're sending personal messages to people wanting them to get you off via phone, text, internet, or whatever......or showing up at their house.....

I don't fall for anyone easily. Maybe it's due to the fact that I've been hurt so much I don't let down my guard easily....but the times I have fallen, I've fallen hard and when it happens I haven't even thought twice about looking at another man. Not that I haven't found other men attractive (I am human, after all)....but it was never nothing more than that.

Maybe I'm just weird....

Maybe you just attract weirdos.

Which would explain this forum.

Where are all the guy weirdos?

DonnaKat wrote:

Which would explain this forum.

HEY HO! WATCH IT YO!

That story never gets old, Dallas.

DonnaKat wrote:

Which would explain this forum.

HEY HO! WATCH IT YO!

Dallas, that story never gets old.

LegoJulie wrote:

Dallas wrote:

but instead was showing up at my house and then pulling out his penis.

Did you shut the door on "it"?

No, unfortunately he was sitting on my couch at the time. It took all I had not to burst out laughing.* That would have been an ego crusher.

*I wanted to bust up laughing, not because "it" was small or anything. It wasn't. It was just one of those moments where I saw myself from outside of myself sitting there with that thing all at attention and in its glory, completely out of the blue and unexpected. And I thought how ridiculous it all must look - that and I imagined the look on my friends' faces when I told them of my "exciting" evening.

LegoJulie wrote:

Where are all the guy weirdos?

His face is plastered all over this forum (points up to plaided banner).

But that guy doesn't visit here and post things himself. Not that that's a totally bad thing considering his followers.

Too much estrogen around here?


Dallas, no pictures then?

Dallas, you're a better woman than I am. I would have laughed, because maybe then it would have sent a message on how silly and stupid he was being. But then, knowing the kind of guy he is, he might have taken that as a "yes".

DonnaKat wrote:

Which would explain this forum.

And I've said, you have to be crazy to start a forum for Gman...so we must all be the result of our own interests.

i feel so at home here!!

I'm glad to hear it! I knew you'd have fun once you started posting.

you were right.....lovely forum!!!!! thank DK....and everyone else here as well for being so friendly and making me feel welcome!

Grrr...since this is a ranting thread...

I was planning on doing my film production project this morning. I called my 'actors' yesterday ie: drama students, to give them all the info they need.

Called the lead actress last night, and she pretty much flaked. First she said that 9:30 am is TOO early (I know she has a class at 10 am and I was planning on getting breakfast for them around 7 am) AND that she or her roommate was moving (and I'm moving right now, too). She left a bad taste in my mouth.

Backup actress has a funeral, which I just let go. The only one who even responded was the lead actor. Very sweet and willing guy. But without the actresses, I'll have to do something else.

Not happy about the diva like actress who made lame excuses.

sounds like your lead doesn't understand the nature of acting. sheesh!

Can you replace Miss Diva with a more 'willing' actress? I mean, after all....if she wants to make it as a real actress, she's not going to be able to get away with the "9:30am is too early" excuse. Come to think of it, she won't get by with that excuse at ANY job.

I hope she has either rich parents or a sugar daddy to support her.

I actually don't have time to recast because of having to move and all. I did have a back up and she has a funeral today. I just talked to these people Wednesday afternoon, and called to confirm on Thursday.

I'm beginning to understand George Lucas' preference of not working with actors.

The male lead was just so sweet, when he finally got back to me. I might try again Monday night if I don't do something else on Sunday. I may do something else. It might be even better...so maybe someone was telling me that my first idea wasn't the best I could do.

But still...I'm completely turned off with that girl.

I never liked drama students. They all act like divas. Make that overact like divas.